40 Rich Habits That Elevate Your Presence And Confidence
40 Habits for the version of you who’s already rich, radiant, respected, and ridiculously magnetic. These aren’t just habits — they’re identity triggers that say, “I’m luxurious and my energy is delicious and expensive.”
Text back promptly & clearly — no chaos, no ghosting. Your energy is clean.
Don’t over explain. You make decisions swiftly. Hire quick, fire quick - being irritated is expensive - do not budget for it.
Don’t use headphones in public.
Do little things immediately.
Put things in your calendar - know your calendar.
Listen with curiosity.
Release the need to speak - speak less, ask question and maintain eye contact.
Check your bank accounts regularly — wealthy women know what’s going on with their money.
Be 5 mins early or exactly on time — NEVER be in a hurry; elegance is never rushed.
Always have an assistant - Have an assistant email address
Dress in outfits, not clothes. Even to the grocery store.
Never look around. Scan the room once and then ground your energy in yourself.
Have a signature scent - - always wear perfume, even in the house - always smell amazing - carry deo and fragrance in your bag for touch ups.
Always have a time when you are unreachable.
Always put your phone away at dinner.
Never have phone convos when you have company - the person in front of you takes priority over the person on the phone.
Be impeccable with your word - stop following up to see ‘if we’re still going”.
Serve your date before you serve yourself.
Always have fresh flowers, and a candle lit in your space.
Tidy as you go. You live in a high-vibe home because you maintain it effortlessly.
You don’t need to be every one’s friend, learn how to assign people appropriately and manage yourself accordingly.
Tip generously — because abundance flows from you.
You keep a “rich list” — a running list of big ideas, collabs, and aligned brands.
Walk slower. Confidence is in the pace.
You sign every email like a mogul.
You romanticize your own life — lingerie, fresh sheets, delicious meals.
Have a signature beauty routine - keep your appts automated.
Maintain your mystery as long as possible, be elusive, answer only the question your were asked - let people earn access to you.
Have a seamstress.
Have an off menu signature drink.
Firm handshake.
Have a bank of questions you like to ask people.
Matching underwear.
Introduce yourself.
Always have mint/gum (be known for something small you can offer).
Know a little about a lot or go deep in a few things + lean into your ignorance (people love to teach and love being heard).
Cultivate curiosity.
Become a good listener.
Cut the small talk - ask disarming thoughtful questions.
Say people’s name, keep up on the details.
